Love Shouldn’t Hurt: Breaking the Silence on Intimate Partner Violence

Standing up, speaking up, and showing up for victims of intimate partner violence means creating a community where safety, dignity, and respect come first.

Standing up involves refusing to ignore abuse, challenging harmful attitudes, and supporting policies that protect survivors.

Speaking up means believing victims, listening without judgment, and encouraging them to seek help without pressuring them to make decisions before they are ready.

Showing up requires consistent action by offering practical support, checking in regularly, helping connect survivors with trusted resources, or simply being present during difficult times.

There are many ways clubs can support survivors of Domestic Violence. First and foremost, connect with your State, Territory, and Tribal Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Coalitions.  They are a wealth of information and can provide help.

Clubs can help raise awareness by creating displays for their local libraries that include coalition information.

Some suggested activities: This holiday season, why not have your Wish Tree be for items requested by residents of your local shelter, and don’t forget the children! Clubs can collect pillows for shelters because many shelters have residents take their pillows when they leave. Offer to take a survivor to second-hand furniture/houseware stores to shop for household items they will need when they are ready to leave the shelter and set up their new home.  Always check with your local shelter first to determine their needs.

Every act of compassion can reduce isolation and remind victims they are not alone. Together, we can help break the cycle of abuse, promote healing, and foster environments where every person feels safe, valued, empowered, and supported.